St Albans Hertfordshire Life Coach Therapy for Women
Does it feel like life is happening to you, instead of for you?
If stress, self-doubt, or overwhelming emotions are running the show, it’s easy to feel stuck in a cycle you can’t break. But what if there was a way to rewrite the story—a way to calm the chaos, rebuild your capacity and confidence, and finally step into the life you’ve been longing for?
You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of anxiety, self-doubt, or unresolved emotions alone. Let’s chart a path toward the peace and clarity you deserve.
What I Can Help You With
I provide a wide range of support to help you navigate the challenges you face in your life. My desire is to create a safe judgement free space for you to express the challenges you face whilst practicing mindset strategies that I share with you. This way, we’ll honour, process and release or reduce the emotional impact of the challenges in your life. You’ll transform the way you speak to yourself, the way you address challenges and the way you move through life.
Manage Overwhelm – Anxiety – Stress
Do you ever feel like your mind just won’t switch off? That knot in your stomach, the racing heart, the constant “what ifs” that leave you drained before the day has even begun?
Develop Confidence & Self-Esteem
Do you ever find yourself shrinking back when you want to step forward? Maybe you hesitate to speak up, avoid situations that make you feel exposed, or keep quiet in fear of being judged.
Self-Worth & Self-Belief Growth
Do you ever catch yourself settling for less than you truly deserve, in love, respect, opportunities, or even how kindly you treat yourself?
Clarity & Direction in Business and Career
Do you ever feel like you’re working hard but not getting anywhere? Maybe you’ve been questioning your path, second-guessing every decision, or feeling pulled in too many directions.
Improving Relationships
Do you ever feel stuck in the same patterns with the people closest to you? Maybe it’s arguments that repeat, feeling unseen or unappreciated, or struggling to express your needs without fear of rejection.
Healing Trauma & the Inner Child
Do you ever notice old hurts resurfacing in your present life? Perhaps you find yourself triggered by certain situations, reacting more strongly than you expect, or carrying emotions that feel heavier than the moment itself.
Healing the Parental Wound
Have you ever felt that, no matter what you do, it’s never quite enough? Perhaps you’ve longed for approval, love, or care that didn’t come in the way you needed it. Or maybe you still carry hurt from criticism, absence, neglect, or emotional distance from a parent or caregiver.
Managing Addictive Tendencies
Do you ever feel caught in habits or behaviours you wish you could break, but somehow keep returning to? Maybe it’s food, shopping, social media, substances, or other coping patterns that give temporary relief but leave you feeling worse afterwards.
I would highly recommend Roksana to anyone seeking transformation. She is compassionate, non-judgemental and I can testify her techniques work!
One to One Private Coaching Programme
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Ten Sessions
Traditional talking therapies rely on clients returning week after week for months or years. Transformation coaching is uniquely designed to give you powerful breakthroughs within ten sessions. Each session will combine a blend of modalities including Coaching, Hypnotherapy, NLP techniques, EMDR, EFT (Tapping) or Guided Meditations.
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90 mins Sessions
Ample time to share reflections and receive a transformational strategy. Each session designed to ensure conversations are deep, energy flows and breakthroughs are realised. Every session ensures you’re leaping closer to your desired outcome. You’ll feel it!
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Personalised Mindset Tools
The real horsepower of your transformation rests in mindset tools. Each session, you will receive a personalised mindset tool to reinforce the transformation strategy used in session. The subconscious mind will continue to re-wire every time you listen. This is one of the ways to sustain the changes long-term. Usually, this is a guided audio or mp3 file sent directly to your device or email.
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Wrap Around Support & Accountability
You’ll never be alone throughout the duration of your ten-session programme. I’ll be coaching and guiding you between our sessions at a pace that fits in with your life. The work you do outside sessions will sustain the progress you make in sessions. You’ll have access to me through voice note, text message, email, or another preferred communication method. Share your real-time reflections and insights. Never feel stuck or alone again.
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Judgement Free Safe Space
You are 100% safe to share openly and honestly about the issues concerning you. You can trust, anything you share, will be held in the strictest confidence. I will respect your opinion and I will honour your situation. All topics are welcome, and I’m very open to learning about your uniqueness. All clients trust me to freely share their public life, personal life, and secret life to realise their desired outcome. Building trust is the foundation to your success.
Take the first step toward peace and confidence—you don’t have to navigate emotional challenges alone...
Whether anxiety feels unmanageable, self-worth is wavering, or past wounds weigh heavy, know this: there is a path forward.
I’m here to guide you with compassion and proven tools to help you:
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Release the grip of anxiety and stress over your life
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Quieten the voice that says "You're not good enough"
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Reignite enthusiasm for your career, relationships and health
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Build self-trust and confidence in every step you take
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Find clarity and calm in the chaos of overthinking or overhelm
Healing doesn’t mean forgetting—it means freeing yourself from the hold of the past and embracing a future where you feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentically you.
Overwhelm, anxiety and stress aren’t just thoughts in your head, they show up in your body, in your moods, and in how you show up in life practically and energetically.
Sometimes the cause feels obvious. Other times, it’s harder to pin down, leaving you frustrated and confused about why you feel this way. Whether it lingers quietly in the background or strikes with uncomfortable intensity, these feelings can impact every part of your life. Your health, your relationships, your career or business, even your confidence in yourself.
But it doesn’t have to stay this way.
What you’ll gain in session:
- A clear understanding of your personal triggers, so you can stop being blindsided by overwhelm.
- Practical tools to regulate your emotions – helping you to prevent and soothe anxiety before it spirals.
- The ability to recover more quickly when stress does arise, instead of being stuck in it for days.
- Gentle guidance to explore and heal the deeper roots of your stress, so lasting change feels possible – not just a quick fix.
- A renewed sense of calm, clarity and inner strength to carry into your daily life.
This is about more than “managing stress.” It’s about creating emotional stability, honouring your past, and empowering your present so you can feel lighter, stronger and truly at ease in yourself.
At times, it might feel like you’re putting on a mask showing the world a version of you that hides the doubt and discomfort underneath.
Low confidence isn’t always obvious to others, but inside it can feel heavy. You may believe you’re “not good enough” or that others are better, smarter, or more capable than you. Over time, these beliefs can hold you back from opportunities, leave you second-guessing yourself, and keep you stuck in relationships, roles, or routines that don’t truly serve you.
The truth is, you deserve to feel safe, seen, and confident being your whole, authentic self.
How low self-esteem may be affecting you
- Holding back in your career or business because you doubt your abilities.
- Staying in unhealthy relationships out of fear of being alone or judged.
- Constantly worrying about what others think.
- Struggling with self-criticism that impacts your health and wellbeing.
- Feeling like you’re not living to your fullest potential.
What you’ll experience in session
Together, we’ll create a safe, supportive space where you can gently set aside the armour and masks you’ve been carrying. Here’s what you’ll gain:
- Emotional stability – learn how to regulate your emotions, both in the moment and long-term.
- A deep sense of safety – so you can begin to face the situations that once triggered doubt or fear.
- Healing from within – we’ll explore and honour the root causes of your low confidence, including inner child wounds and past experiences.
- Practical confidence tools – strategies to help you navigate work, relationships, and life with greater ease and self-assurance.
- Lasting transformation – slowly but surely, you’ll build the inner strength to feel confident across all areas of life.
This isn’t about pretending or “faking confidence.” It’s about finally feeling comfortable in your own skin, trusting your worth, and stepping into the life you were always meant to live.
Low self-worth and low self-belief often go hand in hand. Together, they create invisible walls that keep you from reaching for what you really want. You might know, logically, that you’re capable of more – but after months, years, or even decades of carrying these limiting beliefs, it can feel almost impossible to break free on your own.
How low self-worth and self-belief may be affecting you
- Accepting less love, respect, or trust than you deserve.
- Staying in unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships because you fear change.
- Holding yourself back in your career or business, doubting your ability to grow.
- Feeling undeserving of joy, abundance, or opportunities.
- Watching life pass by from the sidelines instead of stepping fully into it.
If any of this feels familiar, know this: it doesn’t have to stay this way.
What you’ll experience in session
In our work together, you’ll be guided through a safe and supportive process to rebuild the foundations of how you see yourself.
- Explore the roots – understand how long-standing patterns of low self-worth and belief have shaped your life.
- Unravel limiting beliefs – gently release the old stories that have kept you stuck or small.
- Create clarity – identify which area of your life needs the most immediate shift, so we can focus where change will matter most.
- Strengthen your mindset – develop a grounded inner confidence to propel you forward.
- Step into your potential – embrace the truth that you are both worthy of your desires and capable of creating them.
Self-worth means knowing, in your very core, that you are deserving of love, respect, abundance and joy.
Self-belief means trusting that you can grow into the person you most aspire to be.
Together, they create the unshakable foundation for a life lived with confidence, purpose, and fulfilment.
You might even find yourself comparing your journey to others’, wondering why they seem to know exactly what they’re doing while you feel stuck or lost.
When clarity is missing, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, doubtful, and disconnected from your own goals. You may feel like you’re constantly “busy” but not truly moving forward – in your career, business, or both. Over time, this can drain your confidence, blur your vision, and leave you feeling uncertain about what’s next.
The truth is, clarity brings power. And with direction, you can finally move with focus and purpose.
How lack of clarity and direction may be affecting you
- Feeling unfulfilled in your job or business, but unsure what else to do.
- Struggling to make decisions or stick to them without second-guessing.
- Drifting from one idea to another without real progress.
- Comparing yourself to others and doubting your own abilities.
- Feeling like you’re wasting your potential or running out of time.
What you’ll experience in session
Together, we’ll create a safe, focused space for you to step back, breathe, and realign with what truly matters to you.
- Clarity of vision – uncover what you genuinely want from your career or business.
- Identify obstacles – explore what’s holding you back, whether it’s fear, doubt, or external pressures.
- Strategic direction – create a clear plan of action to guide your next steps with confidence.
- Emotional resilience – build the mindset tools to stay steady when challenges arise.
- Empowered decision-making – trust yourself to make choices aligned with your goals and values.
This isn’t about following someone else’s idea of success. It’s about defining your version of success – and having the clarity, confidence, and courage to go after it.
The Outcome
With renewed clarity and direction, you’ll stop feeling scattered and start moving forward with purpose. Decisions will feel lighter, opportunities clearer, and your path ahead far less overwhelming. Most importantly, you’ll reconnect with your inner confidence – knowing not only where you’re going, but that you can get there.
Perhaps you find yourself people-pleasing, over-giving, or holding back your true feelings to avoid conflict.
Relationships whether with a partner, family, friends, or colleagues shape so much of our happiness and wellbeing. When they’re not flowing, it can leave you feeling lonely, resentful, or misunderstood. Over time, these struggles can erode your confidence, increase stress, and even affect your physical and mental health.
The truth is, healthy fulfilling relationships start with the relationship you have with yourself.
How relationship struggles may be affecting you
- Feeling unheard, undervalued, or taken for granted.
- Repeating the same arguments or patterns without resolution.
- Struggling to communicate openly without fear or guilt.
- Staying in unhealthy relationships out of habit or fear of change.
- Experiencing loneliness even when surrounded by people.
What you’ll experience in session
In our sessions, we’ll create a safe, supportive space to explore how your relationships are impacting you and how to reshape them with clarity and confidence.
- Understand patterns – identify recurring dynamics and where they come from.
- Build emotional safety – learn tools to regulate your feelings so you can respond calmly, not react impulsively.
- Strengthen communication – develop confidence to express your needs and boundaries.
- Heal deeper wounds – explore past experiences or inner child patterns that may be influencing your current relationships.
- Create healthier connections – move towards relationships that feel supportive, balanced, and nurturing.
This isn’t about fixing others. It’s about empowering yourself to show up authentically, set boundaries with love, and attract the kind of relationships that reflect your worth.
The Outcome
As your confidence and clarity grow, you’ll notice a shift in how you relate to others. Conversations will feel more open, boundaries easier to uphold, and unhealthy dynamics less appealing. Most importantly, you’ll begin to feel more at peace in yourself – which naturally transforms the connections around you.
You may sense that your past experiences whether recent or long ago are still shaping how you think, feel, and relate to others today.
Trauma and unhealed childhood wounds can leave deep imprints. They may affect your confidence, relationships, health, and the way you show up in the world. You might feel like you’re carrying invisible scars, ones that others can’t see, but you feel every day.
The truth is healing is possible. And it begins with compassion for the parts of you that have been silenced, hidden, or hurt.
How trauma and inner child wounds may be affecting you
- Repeating the same painful patterns in relationships or life.
- Feeling “stuck” in the past or unable to move forward.
- Overreacting or shutting down in certain situations.
- Struggling with self-worth, trust, or emotional safety.
- Carrying shame, guilt, or sadness that you can’t explain.
What you’ll experience in session
Our work together will create a gentle, supportive space where you can safely connect with and heal the parts of you that were wounded.
- Understanding your triggers – notice where past pain is still showing up in your present.
- Creating emotional safety – learn how to regulate and soothe overwhelming feelings.
- Inner child healing – reconnect with and nurture the younger parts of you that still carry unprocessed emotions.
- Releasing old patterns – free yourself from beliefs and habits that no longer serve you.
- Rebuilding from within – create a foundation of compassion, strength, and self-acceptance.
This isn’t about reliving the past, it’s about honouring it, healing it, and empowering yourself to live more freely in the present. To become more connected with yourself and those that matter most to you.
The Outcome
As healing takes place, you’ll begin to feel lighter, safer, and more grounded in yourself. The triggers that once overwhelmed you will feel less powerful. Relationships will shift as you feel more secure and authentic. Most importantly, you’ll reconnect with your inner strength embracing the wholeness that was always within you.
These early experiences can leave deep imprints, shaping how you see yourself and how you relate to others. You may find yourself repeating painful patterns in adulthood – struggling with boundaries, craving validation, or feeling a constant inner ache that’s hard to name.
The truth is, the parental wound doesn’t have to define you forever. With compassion and healing, you can release the hold of the past and create a more loving relationship with yourself.
How the parental wound may be affecting you
- Struggling with feelings of not being “good enough.”
- Over-giving, people-pleasing, or seeking constant validation.
- Difficulty trusting others or setting healthy boundaries.
- Repeating cycles of unhealthy relationships.
- Carrying anger, sadness, or emptiness linked to childhood experiences.
What you’ll experience in session
Our sessions offer a safe, nurturing space to explore and heal the wounds left by your early experiences.
- Acknowledging your story – gently bring awareness to how parental wounds have shaped your life.
- Creating emotional safety – learn tools to manage and soothe difficult feelings that arise.
- Inner child healing – connect with and comfort the younger parts of yourself that still carry pain.
- Releasing old patterns – let go of limiting beliefs and dynamics that no longer serve you.
- Rebuilding self-worth – cultivate compassion, acceptance, and trust within yourself.
This work isn’t about blaming others or victimising yourself. It’s about recognising the impact of the past, healing it with care, and freeing yourself to live with greater confidence, ease, and self-love.
The Outcome
As you heal, you’ll begin to feel lighter, stronger, and more whole. Relationships will shift as you set healthier boundaries and stop repeating old cycles. Most importantly, you’ll create a deeper sense of peace within – no longer defined by the love you didn’t receive, but empowered by the love you now give yourself.
You may notice yourself saying “just this once” – only to find yourself stuck in the same cycle again and again.
Addictive tendencies are often less about the behaviour itself and more about what lies beneath – unmet needs, unprocessed pain, or difficult emotions that feel hard to face. Over time, these habits can impact your health, relationships, confidence, and sense of self-worth.
The truth is, you don’t have to stay stuck in the cycle. Change is possible, and it begins with compassion and understanding.
How addictive tendencies may be affecting you
- Turning to habits that give temporary comfort but leave you feeling guilty or ashamed.
- Struggling to control impulses or cravings, even when you “know better.”
- Feeling isolated, secretive, or disconnected from loved ones.
- Experiencing stress, anxiety, or low mood linked to your coping patterns.
- Believing you’ll never be able to break free.
What you’ll experience in session
Together, we’ll create a safe, non-judgemental space to explore what lies beneath the addictive tendency and develop tools for lasting change.
- Understand your triggers – notice the emotions, situations, or thoughts that drive the behaviour.
- Learn emotional regulation – develop healthier ways to soothe and manage stress or discomfort.
- Explore the root cause – gently uncover the deeper wounds, unmet needs, or past experiences fuelling the cycle.
- Build healthier patterns – replace destructive habits with practices that support your wellbeing.
- Empower self-belief – regain trust in yourself and your ability to make positive choices.
This work isn’t about blame or shame. It’s about healing from the inside out, so you can create a new relationship with yourself – one based on care, respect, and resilience.
The Outcome
As you learn to manage addictive tendencies, you’ll begin to feel freer and more in control. The urges that once felt overwhelming will hold less power, time to pause and choose your response, healthier coping strategies and greater emotional balance. Most importantly, you’ll reconnect with a sense of self-worth – knowing you are capable of lasting change
Do you recognise yourself in one or more of these struggles?
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Unmanageable Anxiety or Stress
Unwinding takes more effort than it should, leaving you feeling on edge
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Believing You’re Not Good Enough
A constant, draining narrative that undermines your confidence
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Lacking Enthusiasm
Struggling to consistently ‘show up’ in your career, relationships, or health
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Second-Guessing Yourself
Doubting your value, contribution, or capability and watching your sense of self-worth erode
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Overthinking
Certain situations dominate your mind, keeping you from being fully present with those you love
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Feeling Overwhelmed
Problems pile up without clear solutions, leaving you paralyzed
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Disproportionate Reactions
Feeling unable to control or understand emotional outbursts or behaviours
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Feeling Alone or Misunderstood
A deep sense of isolation, as if no one truly gets what you’re going through
If you nodded yes to one or more of these, please know this: you’re not alone. Many women, at various stages of life, encounter these struggles. And there’s a way forward.
Roksana has an unrivalled passion for her work and she has a unique gift, that very few possess, to help people become a better version of themselves.
Are you carrying deeper wounds?
Maybe your pain runs even deeper…
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Unresolved Events
Past experiences are still holding you hostage, making it hard to move forward or behave in ways that align with your intentions
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Triggered by Life Transitions
Recent changes might have stirred up old trauma, flooding you with overwhelming thoughts, emotions, and sensations
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Parent or Caregiver Wounds
Navigating guilt or conflict around healing from wounds caused by those who were supposed to nurture you
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Misaligned Relationships
Feeling disconnected or lost in important relationships that no longer feel aligned
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Grief or Loss
Mourning the end of a relationship or the future you envisioned and struggling to find peace.
If any of these resonate, it’s possible that you’re dealing with unresolved trauma. And here’s an important truth: Your mind is constantly seeking healing.
Every moment of every day, your mind and body are working toward your well-being, waiting for the right tools and guidance to activate your natural healing processes. When you choose to address these challenges, you’re opening the door to transformation, growth, and lasting peace.
Roksana transformed my life! Investing in Roksana was the best decision I ever made for myself.
Roksana has been the most amazing coach. I can’t recommend her highly enough. I instantly knew Roksana would be the right person.
There’s a very good reason why Roksana is called a transformation coach because she really did transform my life!
Roksana has been truly transformational. Whatever challenge or support you are seeking, I would highly recommend Roksana to help and support you through this.
Your transformation is possible too! Let me guide you on your journey towards living a fulfilling life.
Is it your time now?
Hi, I’m Roksana
I’m here to help you grow your emotional capacity and step into the most powerful version of yourself. Life can feel overwhelming at times, whether you’re navigating a major transition, facing a personal challenge, or simply wondering if there’s more to life—and more to you.
Through my coaching, I’ll guide you to reliably manage your emotions during life’s ups and downs, unravel the misbeliefs holding you back, and unlock the inner peace and progress you deserve. Together, we’ll build the emotional resilience you need to handle challenges with confidence and grace.
Imagine being fully aligned with your priorities, authentically yourself in every situation, and empowered to live a life that truly reflects your potential – even if that feels impossible right now.
With practical tools for emotional regulation, healing misbeliefs or trauma, and coaching strategies tailored to your unique journey, you’ll gain the confidence to thrive.
If you’re ready to reconnect with your authentic self and embrace the life you were meant to lead, let’s start with a conversation.
Your journey of healing and growth starts here!
Integrated Hypnotherapy, NLP, EFT &
Coaching Practitioner
Certified Root Cause Hypnotherapist
Masters in Clinical Hypnotherapy
Advanced EMDR Coach
My coaching tools to transform your life
“Children don’t get traumatised because they get hurt; they get traumatised because they’re alone with the hurt.”
~ Gabor Mate
Take a look at these kind words from happy Women just like you!
Qualifications & Accreditations
The Integrated hypnotherapy, NLP & coaching practitioner Diploma
In 2018, I became a Coaching Practitioner after completing a diploma. I am working towards the Masters Programme alongside a Behavioural Science Qualification.
Certified Root Cause Hypnotherapist
In March 2022, I successfully completed a programme of training and certified in IMR, Age Regression, Inner Child, Higher Self & Gestalt given by The Life Practice Academy.
Advanced EMDR Coach
In September 2022, I successfully completed advanced EMDR training and certified in use of EMDR as a professional coach.
I’m the host of Personal Power Boost – UK Top 10 Mental Health podcast
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