St Albans Hertfordshire Life Coach Therapy for Women

Does it feel like life is happening to you, instead of for you?

If stress, self-doubt, or overwhelming emotions are running the show, it’s easy to feel stuck in a cycle you can’t break. But what if there was a way to rewrite the story—a way to calm the chaos, rebuild your capacity and confidence, and finally step into the life you’ve been longing for?

You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of anxiety, self-doubt, or unresolved emotions alone. Let’s chart a path toward the peace and clarity you deserve.

What I Can Help You With

I provide a wide range of support to help you navigate the challenges you face in your life. My desire is to create a safe judgement free space for you to express the challenges you face whilst practicing mindset strategies that I share with you. This way, we’ll honour, process and release or reduce the emotional impact of the challenges in your life. You’ll transform the way you speak to yourself, the way you address challenges and the way you move through life.

Manage Overwhelm – Anxiety – Stress

Do you ever feel like your mind just won’t switch off? That knot in your stomach, the racing heart, the constant “what ifs” that leave you drained before the day has even begun?

Develop Confidence & Self-Esteem

Do you ever find yourself shrinking back when you want to step forward? Maybe you hesitate to speak up, avoid situations that make you feel exposed, or keep quiet in fear of being judged.

Self-Worth & Self-Belief Growth

Do you ever catch yourself settling for less than you truly deserve, in love, respect, opportunities, or even how kindly you treat yourself?

Clarity & Direction in Business and Career

Do you ever feel like you’re working hard but not getting anywhere? Maybe you’ve been questioning your path, second-guessing every decision, or feeling pulled in too many directions.

Improving Relationships

Do you ever feel stuck in the same patterns with the people closest to you? Maybe it’s arguments that repeat, feeling unseen or unappreciated, or struggling to express your needs without fear of rejection.

Healing Trauma & the Inner Child

Do you ever notice old hurts resurfacing in your present life? Perhaps you find yourself triggered by certain situations, reacting more strongly than you expect, or carrying emotions that feel heavier than the moment itself.

Healing the Parental Wound

Have you ever felt that, no matter what you do, it’s never quite enough? Perhaps you’ve longed for approval, love, or care that didn’t come in the way you needed it. Or maybe you still carry hurt from criticism, absence, neglect, or emotional distance from a parent or caregiver.

Managing Addictive Tendencies

Do you ever feel caught in habits or behaviours you wish you could break, but somehow keep returning to? Maybe it’s food, shopping, social media, substances, or other coping patterns that give temporary relief but leave you feeling worse afterwards.

I would highly recommend Roksana to anyone seeking transformation. She is compassionate, non-judgemental and I can testify her techniques work!

Shenara

One to One Private Coaching Programme

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    Ten Sessions

    Traditional talking therapies rely on clients returning week after week for months or years. Transformation coaching is uniquely designed to give you powerful breakthroughs within ten sessions.  Each session will combine a blend of modalities including Coaching, Hypnotherapy, NLP techniques, EMDR, EFT (Tapping) or Guided Meditations.

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    90 mins Sessions

    Ample time to share reflections and receive a transformational strategy. Each session designed to ensure conversations are deep, energy flows and breakthroughs are realised.  Every session ensures you’re leaping closer to your desired outcome. You’ll feel it!

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    Personalised Mindset Tools

    The real horsepower of your transformation rests in mindset tools. Each session, you will receive a personalised mindset tool to reinforce the transformation strategy used in session. The subconscious mind will continue to re-wire every time you listen. This is one of the ways to sustain the changes long-term. Usually, this is a guided audio or mp3 file sent directly to your device or email.

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    Wrap Around Support & Accountability

    You’ll never be alone throughout the duration of your ten-session programme. I’ll be coaching and guiding you between our sessions at a pace that fits in with your life. The work you do outside sessions will sustain the progress you make in sessions. You’ll have access to me through voice note, text message, email, or another preferred communication method. Share your real-time reflections and insights. Never feel stuck or alone again.

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    Judgement Free Safe Space

    You are 100% safe to share openly and honestly about the issues concerning you. You can trust, anything you share, will be held in the strictest confidence. I will respect your opinion and I will honour your situation. All topics are welcome, and I’m very open to learning about your uniqueness. All clients trust me to freely share their public life, personal life, and secret life to realise their desired outcome. Building trust is the foundation to your success.

Take the first step toward peace and confidence—you don’t have to navigate emotional challenges alone...

Whether anxiety feels unmanageable, self-worth is wavering, or past wounds weigh heavy, know this: there is a path forward.

I’m here to guide you with compassion and proven tools to help you:

  • Release the grip of anxiety and stress over your life

  • Quieten the voice that says "You're not good enough"

  • Reignite enthusiasm for your career, relationships and health

  • Build self-trust and confidence in every step you take

  • Find clarity and calm in the chaos of overthinking or overhelm

Healing doesn’t mean forgetting—it means freeing yourself from the hold of the past and embracing a future where you feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentically you.

Do you recognise yourself in one or more of these struggles?

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    Unmanageable Anxiety or Stress

    Unwinding takes more effort than it should, leaving you feeling on edge

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    Believing You’re Not Good Enough

    A constant, draining narrative that undermines your confidence

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    Lacking Enthusiasm

    Struggling to consistently ‘show up’ in your career, relationships, or health

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    Second-Guessing Yourself

    Doubting your value, contribution, or capability and watching your sense of self-worth erode

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    Overthinking

    Certain situations dominate your mind, keeping you from being fully present with those you love

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    Feeling Overwhelmed

    Problems pile up without clear solutions, leaving you paralyzed

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    Disproportionate Reactions

    Feeling unable to control or understand emotional outbursts or behaviours

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    Feeling Alone or Misunderstood

    A deep sense of isolation, as if no one truly gets what you’re going through

If you nodded yes to one or more of these, please know this: you’re not alone. Many women, at various stages of life, encounter these struggles. And there’s a way forward.

Roksana has an unrivalled passion for her work and she has a unique gift, that very few possess, to help people become a better version of themselves.

Christina

Are you carrying deeper wounds?

Maybe your pain runs even deeper…

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    Unresolved Events

    Past experiences are still holding you hostage, making it hard to move forward or behave in ways that align with your intentions

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    Triggered by Life Transitions

    Recent changes might have stirred up old trauma, flooding you with overwhelming thoughts, emotions, and sensations

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    Parent or Caregiver Wounds

    Navigating guilt or conflict around healing from wounds caused by those who were supposed to nurture you

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    Misaligned Relationships

    Feeling disconnected or lost in important relationships that no longer feel aligned

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    Grief or Loss

    Mourning the end of a relationship or the future you envisioned and struggling to find peace.

If any of these resonate, it’s possible that you’re dealing with unresolved trauma. And here’s an important truth: Your mind is constantly seeking healing.

Every moment of every day, your mind and body are working toward your well-being, waiting for the right tools and guidance to activate your natural healing processes. When you choose to address these challenges, you’re opening the door to transformation, growth, and lasting peace.

Roksana transformed my life! Investing in Roksana was the best decision I ever made for myself.

Ren

Roksana has been the most amazing coach. I can’t recommend her highly enough. I instantly knew Roksana would be the right person.

Claire

There’s a very good reason why Roksana is called a transformation coach because she really did transform my life!

Maliha

Roksana has been truly transformational. Whatever challenge or support you are seeking, I would highly recommend Roksana to help and support you through this.

Kate C

Your transformation is possible too! Let me guide you on your journey towards living a fulfilling life.

Is it your time now?

Hi, I’m Roksana

I’m here to help you grow your emotional capacity and step into the most powerful version of yourself. Life can feel overwhelming at times, whether you’re navigating a major transition, facing a personal challenge, or simply wondering if there’s more to life—and more to you.

Through my coaching, I’ll guide you to reliably manage your emotions during life’s ups and downs, unravel the misbeliefs holding you back, and unlock the inner peace and progress you deserve. Together, we’ll build the emotional resilience you need to handle challenges with confidence and grace.

Imagine being fully aligned with your priorities, authentically yourself in every situation, and empowered to live a life that truly reflects your potential – even if that feels impossible right now.

With practical tools for emotional regulation, healing misbeliefs or trauma, and coaching strategies tailored to your unique journey, you’ll gain the confidence to thrive.

If you’re ready to reconnect with your authentic self and embrace the life you were meant to lead, let’s start with a conversation.

Your journey of healing and growth starts here!

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Integrated Hypnotherapy, NLP, EFT &
Coaching Practitioner

Certified Root Cause Hypnotherapist

Masters in Clinical Hypnotherapy

Advanced EMDR Coach

My coaching tools to transform your life

“Children don’t get traumatised because they get hurt; they get traumatised because they’re alone with the hurt.”
~ Gabor Mate

Take a look at these kind words from happy Women just like you!

Qualifications & Accreditations

The Integrated hypnotherapy, NLP & coaching practitioner Diploma

In 2018, I became a Coaching Practitioner after completing a diploma. I am working towards the Masters Programme alongside a Behavioural Science Qualification.

Certified Root Cause Hypnotherapist

In March 2022, I successfully completed a programme of training and certified in IMR, Age Regression, Inner Child, Higher Self & Gestalt given by The Life Practice Academy.

Advanced EMDR Coach

In September 2022, I successfully completed advanced EMDR training and certified in use of EMDR as a professional coach.

I’m the host of Personal Power Boost – UK Top 10 Mental Health podcast

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