It’s gone 11pm. The house is asleep. The only light in the room is your phone.
And you’re asking ChatGPT what’s wrong with you. Again.

Trauma is a complex and deeply personal experience that can have lasting effects on your mental health and well-being. Whether you’re grappling with past events or navigating current challenges, finding a safe space to talk about trauma is crucial for healing and growth. In the United Kingdom, several avenues exist for seeking support and guidance from mental health professionals, both within the National Health Service (NHS) and beyond.
Make sure the therapist or coach you work with is skilled and experienced to hold a ‘trauma informed’ space for you. Having an experienced guide to help you to navigate your experience, process and release the intensity of emotions is the key to success. Learning how to better manage triggers takes learning or unlearning and with practise you will soon be feeling much more in control.
If you’re not feeling strong enough to enlist the support of a coach or therapist, ask a trusted friend or family member to help you with this.
The National Health Service (NHS) plays a vital role in providing mental health support to individuals across the UK. Here are some NHS resources where you can seek help for trauma:
In addition to NHS services, several charitable organisations and non-NHS providers offer support and therapy for trauma survivors in the UK:
If you prefer to seek support from a private therapist or counsellor, there are many qualified professionals offering trauma-informed therapy services in the UK. You can find private therapists through directories such as the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) or the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Private therapists may offer a range of therapeutic approaches, including trauma-focused therapies like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), trauma-focused CBT, and psychodynamic therapy.
Make sure the therapist or coach you work with is skilled and experienced to hold a ‘trauma informed’ space for you. Having an experienced guide to help you to navigate your experience, process and release the intensity of emotions is the key to success. Learning how to better manage triggers takes learning or unlearning and with practise you will soon be feeling much more in control.
In addition to face-to-face therapy services, many online platforms and forums provide peer support and community for trauma survivors. Websites such as HealthUnlocked, Elefriends (run by Mind), and Reddit’s r/CPTSD offer virtual spaces where individuals can connect with others who have similar experiences, share coping strategies, and access resources on trauma recovery.
Talking about trauma can be challenging, but it’s an essential step towards healing and reclaiming your sense of well-being. Whether you choose to seek support through NHS services, charitable organizations, private therapy practices, or online communities, know that help is available, and you’re not alone on your healing journey. Remember to prioritize your safety and comfort when seeking support, and don’t hesitate to reach out for help if you need it.
By accessing these resources and engaging in therapeutic interventions, you can begin to process your experiences, build resilience, and work towards a brighter, more hopeful future.
Hi! I’m Roksana. I’m a life coach for women in St Albans, Hertfordshire. I run face to face and online sessions via Zoom. I also specialise in trauma healing. I’m always happy to answer your questions around any of my methods or approaches. Long term changes begin with a guide who has walked a similar path, has a blueprint, will give you support and accountability every step of the way. If you’re interested to know more then please book a FREE call with me.
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