Think of your mind as a family household. Inside, there are different members – your Parts. Each one has its own voice, temperament, and role. Some are playful, some are cautious, some carry wounds from the past.

Where Can I Talk About Trauma?
Trauma is a complex and deeply personal experience that can have lasting effects on your mental health and well-being. Whether you’re grappling with past events or navigating current challenges, finding a safe space to talk about trauma is crucial for healing and growth. In the United Kingdom, several avenues exist for seeking support and guidance from mental health professionals, both within the National Health Service (NHS) and beyond.
Make sure the therapist or coach you work with is skilled and experienced to hold a ‘trauma informed’ space for you. Having an experienced guide to help you to navigate your experience, process and release the intensity of emotions is the key to success. Learning how to better manage triggers takes learning or unlearning and with practise you will soon be feeling much more in control.
If you’re not feeling strong enough to enlist the support of a coach or therapist, ask a trusted friend or family member to help you with this.
NHS Mental Health Services
The National Health Service (NHS) plays a vital role in providing mental health support to individuals across the UK. Here are some NHS resources where you can seek help for trauma:
- GP Services: Your General Practitioner (GP) is often the first point of contact for accessing mental health support within the NHS. GPs can offer assessments, referrals to specialist services, and prescribe medication if necessary.
- Community Mental Health Teams (CMHTs): CMHTs are multidisciplinary teams within the NHS that provide support to individuals experiencing severe and enduring mental health problems, including those related to trauma. These teams typically include psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, and community psychiatric nurses.
- Improving Access to Psychological Therapies (IAPT): IAPT services offer therapies such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), counselling, and trauma-focused interventions for common mental health conditions, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). You can self-refer to IAPT services in many areas without needing a GP referral.
- Trauma Clinics: Some NHS trusts have specialized trauma clinics or services that cater to individuals who have experienced various forms of trauma, such as childhood abuse, domestic violence, or traumatic bereavement. These clinics offer evidence-based treatments tailored to the specific needs of trauma survivors.
Charitable Organisations and Non-NHS Services
In addition to NHS services, several charitable organisations and non-NHS providers offer support and therapy for trauma survivors in the UK:
- Mind: Mind is a leading mental health charity in England and Wales that provides information, advice, and support to anyone experiencing mental health problems. They offer a range of services, including local support groups, helplines, and online resources that address trauma and its impact on mental health.
- Victim Support: Victim Support is an independent charity that offers free and confidential support to victims of crime, including survivors of traumatic events such as assault, robbery, and sexual violence. Their services include emotional support, practical assistance, and information on accessing legal rights and entitlements.
- Rape Crisis Centers: Rape Crisis centres across the UK provide specialist support and counselling to survivors of sexual violence, including rape, sexual assault, and childhood sexual abuse. These centres offer a safe and non-judgmental space for survivors to talk about their experiences, receive emotional support, and access practical help and advocacy services.
- The Survivors Trust: The Survivors Trust is a national umbrella organisation for specialist rape and sexual abuse support services. They provide a directory of local support services and helplines for survivors of sexual violence, as well as resources and information on trauma recovery and coping strategies.
Private Therapy Practices and Practitioners
If you prefer to seek support from a private therapist or counsellor, there are many qualified professionals offering trauma-informed therapy services in the UK. You can find private therapists through directories such as the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) or the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Private therapists may offer a range of therapeutic approaches, including trauma-focused therapies like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), trauma-focused CBT, and psychodynamic therapy.
Make sure the therapist or coach you work with is skilled and experienced to hold a ‘trauma informed’ space for you. Having an experienced guide to help you to navigate your experience, process and release the intensity of emotions is the key to success. Learning how to better manage triggers takes learning or unlearning and with practise you will soon be feeling much more in control.
Online Support Groups and Forums
In addition to face-to-face therapy services, many online platforms and forums provide peer support and community for trauma survivors. Websites such as HealthUnlocked, Elefriends (run by Mind), and Reddit’s r/CPTSD offer virtual spaces where individuals can connect with others who have similar experiences, share coping strategies, and access resources on trauma recovery.
Final Thoughts
Talking about trauma can be challenging, but it’s an essential step towards healing and reclaiming your sense of well-being. Whether you choose to seek support through NHS services, charitable organizations, private therapy practices, or online communities, know that help is available, and you’re not alone on your healing journey. Remember to prioritize your safety and comfort when seeking support, and don’t hesitate to reach out for help if you need it.
By accessing these resources and engaging in therapeutic interventions, you can begin to process your experiences, build resilience, and work towards a brighter, more hopeful future.
Hi! I’m Roksana. I’m a life coach for women in St Albans, Hertfordshire. I run face to face and online sessions via Zoom. I also specialise in trauma healing. I’m always happy to answer your questions around any of my methods or approaches. Long term changes begin with a guide who has walked a similar path, has a blueprint, will give you support and accountability every step of the way. If you’re interested to know more then please book a FREE call with me.
References:
- NHS – Mental health services: https://www.nhs.uk/using-the-nhs/nhs-services/mental-health-services/
- Mind – How can I help myself cope after trauma?: https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/trauma/self-care-after-trauma/
- Victim Support – How we can help: https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/help-and-support/get-help
- Rape Crisis England & Wales – Find your local Rape Crisis Center: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-help/
- The Survivors Trust – Find support: https://www.thesurvivorstrust.org/find-support
- British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) – Find a therapist: https://www.bacp.co.uk/search/Therapists
- United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) – Find a therapist: https://www.psychotherapy.org.uk/find-a-therapist/
- HealthUnlocked – Join the community: https://healthunlocked.com/
- Elefriends by Mind – Join the community: https://www.elefriends.org.uk/
- Reddit – r/CPTSD: https://www.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/
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