Think of your mind as a family household. Inside, there are different members – your Parts. Each one has its own voice, temperament, and role. Some are playful, some are cautious, some carry wounds from the past.

Why do you need Life Coaches if there are already Therapists?
It’s a question I hear often: “If there are already therapists, what’s the point of life coaches?”
It’s a valid question, especially here in the UK where mental health awareness is growing, but so is confusion around who to turn to for support.
The short answer? Both therapists and life coaches offer powerful, life-changing support but in very different ways. Understanding the distinctions, the overlaps, and the potential limitations of each can empower you to choose the right guide for your personal growth.
Life Coach vs. Therapist: What’s the difference?
At first glance, both roles might seem similar. They both listen, they both help you navigate life’s challenges, and they both aim to improve your wellbeing. But look closer, and you’ll see distinct differences in approach, scope, and focus:
Therapists (Counsellors, Psychotherapists, Clinical Psychologists)
Therapists are trained mental health professionals. In the UK, they often hold specific qualifications accredited by professional bodies like the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) or the UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy). Their work often focuses on:
- Healing past trauma
- Processing grief or loss
- Managing mental health conditions like depression, anxiety, PTSD, or addiction
- Exploring unconscious patterns
- Rewiring unhelpful thought processes (e.g., through CBT)
- Offering diagnoses (where qualified to do so)
Therapy is typically rooted in looking backwards to understand the past and how it shapes your present. It offers a confidential, often long-term space to process emotions, build coping strategies, and work through complex psychological issues.
Life Coaches (Transformation Coaches, Empowerment Coaches, etc.)
Life coaches, by contrast, work with clients who are generally functioning well in daily life but want more. More clarity. More confidence. More fulfilment. More success.
Coaching is future-focused, designed to:
- Help you set and achieve personal or professional goals
- Overcome self-doubt and limiting beliefs
- Improve confidence, self-worth, and resilience
- Gain clarity around life direction or career transitions
- Build better habits and routines
- Navigate life changes (e.g., motherhood, divorce, career shifts)
- Enhance performance or productivity
While a skilled Transformation Coach (like myself) may integrate subconscious work such as Hypnotherapy or NLP, the primary emphasis remains on forward momentum and tangible outcomes.
The Crossovers: When Coaching and Therapy complement each other
Many people benefit from both coaching and therapy at different stages of life or even simultaneously. For example:
- You might work with a therapist to heal trauma from your childhood.
- You might then hire a coach to help rebuild confidence, set ambitious goals, or cultivate a new empowered identity.
Some coaches, particularly those with additional therapeutic training (as I integrate with EMDR or Hypnotherapy), can walk both paths with you but always with clarity about where the line is drawn. Complex mental health diagnoses, severe trauma, or crisis situations belong firmly within the therapy space.
What issues can each support with?
Here’s a practical comparison:
| Therapists can support with
| Life Coaches can support with
|
| Trauma and PTSD | Confidence building |
| Depression and Anxiety Disorders | Goal setting and accountability |
| Grief, Loss, or Bereavement | Navigating life transitions |
| Addiction and Recovery | Overcoming limiting beliefs |
| Relationship Therapy (couples/families) | Building resilience and mindset |
| Emotional Regulation Difficulties | Career direction and fulfilment |
| Uncovering unconscious patterns | Personal empowerment and success |
Many life challenges sit on a spectrum, a good coach or therapist will help you assess which type of support you need right now.
A transformation coach, like me, will be skilled and experienced to support you with the issues from both lists.
The limitations of each role
No approach is perfect for every situation. Here’s what to be mindful of:
Therapy limitations:
- It can be slow-paced, particularly when processing deep emotional wounds.
- Some people feel therapy keeps them stuck in the past without enough focus on doing or changing.
- Access via the NHS can involve long wait times (unless seeking private therapy).
Life Coaching limitations:
- Coaches are not equipped to diagnose or treat mental health conditions.
- Coaching alone may not resolve deep-rooted trauma or severe emotional struggles.
- Unqualified or inexperienced coaches (unfortunately common in an unregulated industry) may lack the skill to safely hold space for complex emotional experiences.
The secret ingredient: chemistry and rapport
Whether you work with a coach or therapist, one element makes the biggest difference: rapport. You need to feel seen, heard, and safe. It’s essential to have:
- A connection where you feel comfortable sharing vulnerably
- Confidence in their expertise and approach
- A sense of trust and partnership
In my own coaching practice, clients often share that our relationship itself becomes a catalyst for transformation not just the tools or strategies I offer. The same holds true for therapy. Healing and growth happen in the space between two humans who connect with mutual respect.
So, do you need a Life Coach if there are already therapists?
If you want to process the past, heal trauma, or manage a diagnosed mental health condition see a therapist.
If you want to unlock potential, challenge limiting beliefs, set meaningful goals, and step boldly into your empowered self work with a life coach.
Many of my clients in the UK do both, depending on their season of life. It’s not either/or. It’s about building a team of support that reflects your unique journey.
Alternatively, you can work with a transformation coach who can support you with coaching while also working to honour, process and release wounds from the past.
Curious whether coaching or therapy or a blend of both is right for you?
Hi! I’m Roksana. I’m a life coach for women in St Albans, Hertfordshire. I run face to face and online sessions via Zoom. I also specialise in trauma healing. I’m always happy to answer your questions around any of my methods or approaches. Long term changes begin with a guide who has walked a similar path, has a blueprint, will give you support and accountability every step of the way. If you’re interested to know more then please book a FREE call with me.
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