Hi, I'm Roksana
The woman I am today was years in the making, and I am still on the journey. I am a trauma-informed transformation coach and clinical hypnotherapist, and I work with women who are ready to feel at home within themselves. Before I share the training and the credentials, there is something more honest I would rather you knew first.
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I believe every woman deserves to feel worthy, confident and free to live life on her own terms, without apology.
Healing was never a straight line for me
Like a lot of the women I now work with, my own path has not been a straight line. For years it felt like an inner tug of war, one part of me resisting the very thing another part of me longed for. I overthought my words, actions and decisions. I tried, failed, softened, grew, and slipped back again. It deepened my sense of helplessness before it grew my resolve.
None of it was easy. What made it possible was the support of the healers, therapists and coaches who helped me remember that moving forward was allowed.
I have walked away from roles, relationships and versions of myself that no longer fit. Sometimes it was frightening. Sometimes it felt like freedom. What I learned along the way is this: empowerment is not about having it all. It is about choosing what is right for you, even when that choice is hard.
Who I work with
Today I work with women who are capable, resilient and, from the outside, doing well, yet caught in cycles of stress, overwhelm, self-doubt or old patterns that no longer serve them. Women who have built real things in their careers, businesses, relationships or health, and who still sense there is more in them than they are living.
If that is you, please know the capacity you are looking for is already inside you. What activates your capacity is the right support tailored to your specific needs.
No amount of work I'd done for myself in the past ever resulted in such a significant change. She has a very good way of understanding your needs.
DhipaYou might be in the right place if
Every woman I work with is different. Still, a few things tend to be true.
- You are the capable one, the person everyone leans on, and inside it feels heavier than you let anyone see.
- You have done well on paper, in your career, your business or your family, and something still feels unlived.
- You are moving through a change, whether you chose it or not, and you want to come through it steadier rather than simply survive it.
- You have tried to think your way through this before, and part of you senses the real work sits deeper than thinking.
- You are ready to know what life feels like once this is resolved.
If you are hoping for a quick fix, or for someone to only ever agree with you, I am probably not your person. This is gentle work, and it is real work, and it will ask something of you too.
How I work
My sessions blend practical coaching with deeper subconscious work, drawing on clinical hypnotherapy, EMDR, NLP and EFT. In plain terms, we work with both the thinking mind and the part of you that holds the older feelings, so change happens at the root rather than on the surface.
Every journey with me begins the same way. First we honour what you're carrying before we understand where it began. Then we build your emotional capacity and inner resources, so you feel steadier and more supported before we go anywhere near the harder work. From there, we move into whatever you most want to shift.
That first chapter has a name. It is called Groundwork: a five-session beginning that stands complete on its own. It is the gentlest place to start, and the clearest way to find out how it feels to work together.
Book your free 20-minute consultationIf you would rather see the whole path first, explore the full coaching journey.
I have had several different coaches and therapists, which have not lasted. Roksana is someone I will stick with until she retires!
ReenaWhy this work is personal for me
I know, first hand, what it means to be raised by a parent who was still carrying their own unhealed wounds. The pattern this leaves takes years to notice, let alone release or unlearn. That is why this work is not only professional for me. It is lived.
I have a particular tenderness for Mums, for British South Asian women, and for women from ethnic minority backgrounds, because I understand the invisible layers we often carry: the pressure to put everyone else first, the stigma around asking for help, and the guilt that arrives the moment you try to put yourself first.
I came across Roksana after searching for a life coach with a British Asian background. I had visited a life coach before but found myself having to constantly explain my background but Roksana just got it.
A KIf the parent wound is what brought you here, you might begin with my free Daughter Archetype Quiz. It is a gentle first step to understanding the pattern you grew up inside. And if it was someone you love who came to mind rather than you, you are welcome to send her the quiz too.
What this work is really for
This is not about quick fixes. It is about becoming whole instead of fragmented, self-compassionate instead of self-critical, and able to move instead of feeling stuck. The women I work with leave with a kinder relationship to the parts of themselves they once fought, more steadiness when life is hard, and the freedom to pursue what matters to them.
I have been seeking help for almost 15 years... despite continuing to work on myself, I would end up back at square 1. I now know it's because the root of the issues were never truly healed, only masked. Roksana has changed my life. For the first time I feel like I've switched lanes. I'm now on a new path, heading in the right direction.
SophiaQualifications and accreditations
My training sits behind every session. Here is where it comes from. Select a badge to open the certificate.
Fellow of the ACCPH
Fellow of the ACCPH (Accredited Counsellors, Coaches, Psychotherapists and Hypnotherapists), the body's most senior membership grade. It means my qualifications and professional insurance are independently verified, and I work to a published code of ethics. You can verify my membership here.
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Member of the BAThH
Member of the British Association of Therapeutic Hypnotists and NLP Practitioners (BAThH), a professional body for qualified hypnotherapists first formed in 1951. Membership requires me to hold full professional liability insurance and to work to a published code of ethics.
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Master Clinical Hypnotherapist
Master Clinical Hypnotherapist, trained with The Life Practice Academy, including certification in IMR, Age Regression, Inner Child, Higher Self and Gestalt work.
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Advanced EMDR Coach
Certified in the advanced use of EMDR as a professional coach, a powerful approach for processing difficult experiences.
View certificate (PDF)Certified Root Cause Hypnotherapist
Trained to work with the root cause of a pattern rather than only its symptoms.
Integrated NLP, EFT and coaching practitioner
An integrated practitioner in NLP, EFT and coaching, woven through the way I work.
Host of Personal Power Boost
I am the host of Personal Power Boost, a UK Top 10 Mental Health podcast, where I share practical tools and honest conversations on healing and growth.
Listen to the podcastIn their own words
After struggling with divorce, grief, burnout and a new life I was feeling overwhelmed and needed someone who was specialising in helping women like me heal deeply.
KiranShe really helped me to develop boundaries with work and turn my life around. My relationship with my daughter has never been better.
ShameemaOur deep regression work and coaching techniques set me free of the traumas I was carrying and provided structure to form the life I really wanted.
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If any of this resonates, the next step is a calm one. We will spend twenty minutes together on a free consultation, with no pressure and no obligation, so you can feel whether we are the right fit for each other. That sense of fit matters to me as much as it does to you.
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